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This pattern — where one person pursues and the other withdraws — is called the pursue-withdraw cycle. It's one of the most common relationship dynamics, and the good news is it's very workable.
Here's what's likely happening:
Your partner isn't shutting down because they don't care. Withdrawal is often a self-protection response when someone feels overwhelmed or fears they'll say something hurtful.
Try this approach next time:
Instead of "we need to talk about time together," which can trigger defensiveness, try leading with your feeling: "I've been missing you lately. Can we find a time this week that's just for us?"
This reframes the conversation from a complaint to an invitation.
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